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What if the first move isn’t outward… it’s upward?”

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What if the first move isn’t outward… it’s upward?”

Sometimes I don’t realize how quickly I move outward.

Outward in frustration.
Outward in explanation.
Outward in defense.
Outward in correction.

My instinct is to fix what I’m feeling by saying something about it.

But Psalm 62:8 gently invites me to do something different —
to pour out my heart to God first.

Not after I’ve reacted.
Not once I’ve already replayed the conversation ten times.
Not once I’ve texted a friend about it.

First.

There is something humbling about bringing my raw reaction to Him before I bring it to anyone else. It slows me down. It softens my tone. It reminds me that I am not alone in the tension of motherhood, relationships, or disappointment.

And more than anything, it shifts me from reacting out of offense or exhaustion to responding from a place of calm trust.

I don’t always get it right.
But I’m learning that going upward first changes everything that comes after.

Maybe today, the most powerful thing we can do isn’t say more…it’s pause longer.

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